Hair Coils

My hair is normal African American / How do I make it softer with looser coils / loops as mixed raced people (do not be racist or else I'm a guy).

Use a good leave in conditioner and moisturizer daily. I suggest Cantu leave and Pantene calm and natural daily moisturizer. Unlike Caucasian hair, add lots of moisture and oil for the hair. Thus, using a good moisturizer regularly will make a huge difference.